A phoenix there will come a time when it shall turn into fire and become ashes. From its ashes, a new young phoenix shall be born -- REBORN! This is the core of my blog today -- the Phoenix of Attraction.
I have been through uphill battles when it comes to connecting with other people whether that nexus is instantaneous or a consequence of a regular, suddenly habitual, natural interaction between me and the other person. I have to admit that succumbing to this force stirs me all the time. It engulfs me and preoccupies me. It carries me away and even blows me out of my mind.
The sad part of this undertaking, I mean, of this occurrence, is when the attraction seems to be one sided or there are certain requisites that I need to comply so that the other side would reciprocate my somehow one-sided connection.
But the good part in experiencing this is that metamorphosing effect of making you a better person, a wiser, more careful being. In other times, it gives you the chance to rethink things and improve your chances of getting involved in a happier, more fulfilling relationship in the future. This is like a Phoenix reborn.
As I continue to observe myself and even those who I know have been through relationship trials specifically that breaking up instance, just like a fire, it is so hot you could not bear the pain of departing from the person who is so dear to you and has brought meaningful memories that provided more colors to the day-to-day journeys. But, just like a phoenix, from the fire there comes this ash and from the ash there comes a new phoenix.
This is also true to relationships. At the beginning, calling it quits with someone very special is sometimes like breaking your persona into several, shattered glass pieces. There is the impossibility of being able to bubbly bounce back to enjoyable life because life suddenly becomes so dark, blue and unenthusiastic. Breathing has become so hard and the heart has numbed. The thought of the painful feeling has occupied the center of everything. Moving on with life has lost its meaning.
But, without us going through such ups and downs in this paradoxically unexplainable act of linking and disconnecting, we will not be able to start knowing the decipherable presence of the spirit of the Phoenix long have been living in all of us. And from this, there we shall be reborn. We will start wittingly or unwittingly to continually rise up from the ashes of the previous achy relationship and the bitter memories will slowly fade away. Soon, smiles will become obviously present on our faces. Frowns are drowned by the new happiness we shall find. And we shall reconnect again with hopes and with with passion.
And so the spirit of the Phoenix will continue to linger on. As the cycle goes on, so too shall we become stronger thereby stretching the time when the Phoenix shall be burned into ashes again.
Attraction is the kind of uncontrollable visual connection between one 
entity and another which is manifested by a certain kind of pull. It creates a stinging sensation that makes one excited and always on the adrenaline rush. It sometimes becomes a source of inspiration and a persuasion to look forward to seeing that other person.
entity and another which is manifested by a certain kind of pull. It creates a stinging sensation that makes one excited and always on the adrenaline rush. It sometimes becomes a source of inspiration and a persuasion to look forward to seeing that other person.I have been through uphill battles when it comes to connecting with other people whether that nexus is instantaneous or a consequence of a regular, suddenly habitual, natural interaction between me and the other person. I have to admit that succumbing to this force stirs me all the time. It engulfs me and preoccupies me. It carries me away and even blows me out of my mind.
The sad part of this undertaking, I mean, of this occurrence, is when the attraction seems to be one sided or there are certain requisites that I need to comply so that the other side would reciprocate my somehow one-sided connection.
But the good part in experiencing this is that metamorphosing effect of making you a better person, a wiser, more careful being. In other times, it gives you the chance to rethink things and improve your chances of getting involved in a happier, more fulfilling relationship in the future. This is like a Phoenix reborn.
As I continue to observe myself and even those who I know have been through relationship trials specifically that breaking up instance, just like a fire, it is so hot you could not bear the pain of departing from the person who is so dear to you and has brought meaningful memories that provided more colors to the day-to-day journeys. But, just like a phoenix, from the fire there comes this ash and from the ash there comes a new phoenix.
This is also true to relationships. At the beginning, calling it quits with someone very special is sometimes like breaking your persona into several, shattered glass pieces. There is the impossibility of being able to bubbly bounce back to enjoyable life because life suddenly becomes so dark, blue and unenthusiastic. Breathing has become so hard and the heart has numbed. The thought of the painful feeling has occupied the center of everything. Moving on with life has lost its meaning.
But, without us going through such ups and downs in this paradoxically unexplainable act of linking and disconnecting, we will not be able to start knowing the decipherable presence of the spirit of the Phoenix long have been living in all of us. And from this, there we shall be reborn. We will start wittingly or unwittingly to continually rise up from the ashes of the previous achy relationship and the bitter memories will slowly fade away. Soon, smiles will become obviously present on our faces. Frowns are drowned by the new happiness we shall find. And we shall reconnect again with hopes and with with passion.
And so the spirit of the Phoenix will continue to linger on. As the cycle goes on, so too shall we become stronger thereby stretching the time when the Phoenix shall be burned into ashes again.
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